Did God Really Pick My Car? | Mick | 021

What if a car purchase wasn’t just about wheels, but about God’s hand at work?
In this episode of When You Look, Mick shares the remarkable story of how his 2015 Toyota Highlander Hybrid seemed to be chosen, orchestrated, and even “pre-negotiated” by God Himself.
From the unexpected idea of a hybrid, to his wife’s surprising agreement, to a dealership that wouldn’t haggle—but had the exact right vehicle for thousands less than market value—this story is a powerful reminder of how God provides in unexpected ways.
👉 Was it all coincidence… or was it God? You decide.
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Chapters
0:18 Backstory
3:50 Silver model
5:30 White model
7:20 Unsuccessful Negotiation
9:16 Pre-negotiated
10:09 Coincidence or God?
11:16 How Has My Life Changed?
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What's up everybody?
It's Mick from When You Look.
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This is the story of the 2015
Toyota Highlander.
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You ready?
Let's go.
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Welcome to When You Look, where
ordinary people share their
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extraordinary experiences and
you get to decide, was it
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coincidence or God?
So it's late summer of 2020 and
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I've just launched my own
consulting business.
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Now my vehicle at this point is
a 2016 Toyota Tundra and our
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other family vehicle is a 2016
Toyota Sequoia.
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Both of these vehicles have a
5.7 liter V8 in them and they
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are not great for gas mileage.
As I start to launch the
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consulting business, it's pretty
clear that zipping around town
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in the Toyota Tundra is just
really not going to work.
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Not only does the gas mileage
create a challenge with the
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dollars and cents and the cost
of gas, but even parking the
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thing isn't all that easy.
And so truly, zipping around
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really wasn't much of an option.
So I had this idea, and it
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really wasn't my own idea
because it kind of came out of
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nowhere.
And that was Highlander Hybrid.
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I thought about it for about a
day or so and then I did a tiny
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bit of research on them and
realized I was like, wow, we've
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previously had a Toyota
Highlander.
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We really liked it.
And the gas mileage on a
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Highlander hybrid is even
better, like significantly
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better, at least according to
the specs.
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Maybe this could be something
that would make sense, but
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admittedly hybrids really
weren't exactly our thing.
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As you can tell, we had two
vehicles that had 5.7 liter V
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eights in them.
So it's a bit out of the
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ordinary for me to be thinking
Highlander hybrid.
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But I talked to my wife about it
and I said, hey, listen, I just
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want to run an idea by you.
I'm like, you know, it's
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challenging for me with the
Tundra running around town with
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the new business.
How would you feel if we sold
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the Tundra and bought a
Highlander hybrid?
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And without hesitation, she was
like, I'm good with it.
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And I'm like, oh, wait, wait,
really?
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I mean, it was one of those
things where because we're a
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very thoughtful couple, we make
decisions together.
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I was fully anticipating that
there was going to be more
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discussion.
And my wife's response was, no,
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that makes sense.
I'm good with it.
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My wife's only question to me
was, are you going to be OK with
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this?
Because we had actually sold a
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Toyota Highlander in order to
fund the Toyota Tundra.
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And my response to her was,
yeah, I'm totally fine with
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this.
This will be a complete non
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issue.
The Highlander that we sold was
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white with a cream interior and
it was primarily my wife's car.
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And we bought a Tundra that was
silver with a Gray interior
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because that was going to be
primarily my car and that was
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the styling and the color key
that I sort of liked.
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O I got agreement from my wife
to have the Highlander hybrid be
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silver and Gray just like the
Tundra was.
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And I said, I'm like, are you
going to be able to live with
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that?
And she's like, yeah, you're
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going to be driving it
primarily, so it'll still kind
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of be your car.
So yes, not a big deal.
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You can have the silver and the
Gray.
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I'm like, OK, great.
So I find a silver one in
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Northern Virginia and I find a
white one in the greater
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Richmond area and I decide I'm
going to go look at the silver
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one and if that doesn't work out
I'll potentially go look at the
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white 1.
So I drive a number of hours
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from Greater Richmond up to the
dealership in Northern Virginia
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and check it out.
All seemed fine.
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So I got in the vehicle and then
took it for a test drive.
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And the test drive just left
something to be desired.
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It had been a couple of years
since we'd had our own
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Highlander, but this one for
some reason just seemed a little
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bit noisier.
And I couldn't put my finger on
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it because I'm like, this is the
same exact car.
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It's literally shaped the same.
It's a different color, but it's
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otherwise equipped the same.
But this one just doesn't seem
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like it's as quiet as the one
that we had.
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And when I got back to the
dealership and parked it, it
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just seemed like it was small.
And the more I considered that,
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the more I realized that the
Tundra with the Gray interior
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was great.
It was roomy and bright.
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And in contrast, because the
Highlander was narrower and a
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smaller and tighter car, it
seemed a lot darker and not
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nearly as appealing in Gray.
So I left there and drove many
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hours back to the greater
Richmond area and then even
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further South to this other
dealership.
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And I get to the other
dealership, start speaking with
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somebody there about the white
Highlander hybrid, and they give
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me the keys to it.
And I go out to the vehicle.
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And as I sat in the vehicle, the
moment my butt touched that seat
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and I closed the door, I knew
this is the one.
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Literally knew it.
It was a complete knowing, a
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complete degree of confidence.
And in a way, the exact opposite
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of what I had experienced in the
silver and Gray one, where that
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one was kind of just like
something just kind of seems off
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sitting in the white one with
the tan interior.
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I knew this is it.
In fact, I was so convinced of
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that I knew at that moment I
don't even need to drive this.
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I'm literally good to buy it,
which is insane when you think
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about it, because of course
you're not going to buy a new
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car or a used car without test
driving it, right?
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And so ultimately, I did test
drive it, but I remember putzing
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slowly through the parking lot
at the dealership thinking this
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is a waste of time.
I know I don't need to actually
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drive this thing.
This is the vehicle that I'm
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supposed to buy.
I take it for a test drive.
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I call my wife.
I'm like, hey, get a load of
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this, this is the vehicle for
us.
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I'm going to move forward with
this.
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And she's like, OK, sounds like
you're really clear on this.
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I'm like, I'm 100% locked in.
This is the vehicle for us.
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So I tell her I'm like, I'm
going to head inside trying to
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negotiate a little bit more off
of this thing and I'll keep you
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posted.
Well, I go in and I begin the
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negotiation process with the
sales guy and he sort of like
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hears me out for a second and
then he says, hey, man, I'm I'm
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sorry to let you know this, but
we're a haggle free dealership.
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And I'm like, really?
There's nothing that says that
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anywhere.
He's like, yeah, we're fixed
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price, dude.
It's it is, it is exactly what
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it is.
Do you want it?
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And I'm like, yeah, I'll take
it.
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So I was a little disappointed
because I was fired up and like
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ready to get 500 bucks knocked
off of this or something.
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It turns out that that was
impossible because they didn't
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negotiate that way.
And so I end up buying the
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vehicle.
And one of the things that was
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really cool about this and the
way that God worked all of this
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through is that we were going to
sell the Toyota Tundra, but we
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hadn't yet sold it because we
needed that as our second
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vehicle.
Despite having launched my
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consulting business, my employer
that I was leaving was totally
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aware of that and asked me to
stay through the end of
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September.
So I needed a loan in order to
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purchase this vehicle for the
handful of days or handful of
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weeks it would take for us to
then sell the Tundra to then pay
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off the Highlander that I was
buying.
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And the beauty here is, is that
because I was still employed,
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the application for the loan was
completely painless.
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Having a great credit score,
good income, all of that type of
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stuff made it literally plug and
play.
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And I was able to purchase that
vehicle without any issues.
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Why?
Because God had orchestrated all
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of that.
So it wasn't.
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But a couple of weeks later, 2,
maybe three, that we ended up
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selling the Tundra.
And then we paid off the
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Highlander and I'm out to lunch
with a buddy of mine and I'm
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explaining this whole scenario
and I said, Michael, here I am.
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I'm like ready to go.
I want to get 500 bucks off of
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this thing.
And I know it's a pretty good
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deal already, but I'm like, I'm
going to get another 500 bucks
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off of this.
And he says to me, God pre
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negotiated it.
And I'm like, you are totally
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right.
Because the white Highlander
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Hybrid was a couple $1000 less
than market value, it was a
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couple grand less than the
Silver 1.
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And it was exactly the car for
us sitting at a dealership where
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I didn't have to do anything
other than come in and buy it.
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So God had quite literally pre
negotiated it.
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The question that we ask our
guests often is was all of this
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coincidence or God?
And I'm going to tell you flat
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out, without question, this is
God.
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Because the idea of a hybrid
came from him, not something
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normal for us, period.
The idea of going back to a
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Highlander from what we had
before came from him.
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The fact that my wife was
completely on board from the
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outset, an indication came from
him.
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Then having two vehicles
available at the same time in
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the colors that we kind of liked
and knowing one, the silver one,
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not the right one, and then
knowing the white 100%, that's
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the one him, the loan being easy
peasy him, the price point pre
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negotiated and thousands of
dollars less him.
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He provided the whole thing, and
by God's grace, it's still sits
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in our driveway.
So how has my life changed as a
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result of this?
Well, it's just been another
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example of God providing.
So when I need a reminder, I can
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look at that car.
I can remember His provision.
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It's a clear and tangible
example, and I have so many of
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them, so many of them, what I
call my personal mountains of
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evidence, separate from all the
stuff that I've seen in the
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Bible.
Our family has been blessed with
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its own mountains of evidence,
and this is just another one.
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The 2015 Toyota Highlander
Hybrid that sits in our driveway
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is the car God prepared for us
to have.
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So He gets all the glory in this
one.
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And you may feel differently,
but that's the beauty of when
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you look ordinary people like me
sharing an extraordinary
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experience.
And then you get to decide, was
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it coincidence or God?
Let me know what you think about
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all of this in the comments.
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Until next time, thanks a bunch
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