June 3, 2026

The Morning My Ex Broke In With a Gun | Kimberly Haar | 064

The Morning My Ex Broke In With a Gun | Kimberly Haar | 064
When You Look
The Morning My Ex Broke In With a Gun | Kimberly Haar | 064
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What started as a fresh start after divorce turned into a nightmare Kimberly Haar never saw coming. After ending a 23-year marriage and finally finding love again, Kimberly’s ex-husband broke into her home in the middle of the night with a gun. Hours later, she heard three gunshots outside the house of the man she believed she would marry. That man survived being shot 10 times.


In this powerful episode of When You Look, Kimberly shares the unbelievable true story of trauma, survival, healing, forgiveness, and the unmistakable presence of God in the middle of unimaginable pain. From assault and kidnapping to miraculous recovery and restoration, this conversation explores what it really means to run toward God when life completely falls apart.


Kimberly also opens up about:

• surviving domestic violence and trauma

• healing emotionally after abuse

• faith during suffering

• the moment she felt the presence of God beside her

• Andrew surviving after being shot 10 times

• how they still got married that same year

• reclaiming life after grief, loss, and trauma


If you’ve ever wrestled with fear, heartbreak, betrayal, anxiety, or wondered where God is in your darkest moments, this episode is for you.

📌 Kimberly Haar is a licensed marriage and family therapist, author, speaker, and host of the Keepin' It Real podcast.

📖 Kimberly’s book: Healing from Life’s Deepest Hurts: Reclaiming Your Life After Grief, Loss, or Trauma


📌 Kimberly's Contact Links

Web https://kimberlyhaar.com/

Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kimberly.haar/

Book on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Lifes-Deepest-Hurts-Reclaiming/dp/1540904563

Podcast on Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/keepin-it-real/id1629329737

Podcast on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0kS2r4PR4TvkrmkIWIJZmL?si=996c76a151264e52


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When You Look Links

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Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whenyoulookshow/

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Chapters

0:53 - Meet Kimberly Haar

3:49 - Dating

6:19 - The Evening

7:55 - Terror & Escape

9:58 - Healing Begins

14:31 - The Pergola

16:35 - The Idol

18:54 - Decisions Over Emotions

21:21 - Emotional Healing

24:23 - God's Presence

27:39 - Finger Pointed

29:12 - After the Hospital

31:06 - God Was There

37:21 - Andrew's Recovery

39:11 - Coincidence or God?

40:31 - How Has Your Life Changed?

42:29 - Kimberley's Book, Podcast, & Contact Info